After I read last night's post to Linda, we talked about Waldman's article and we eventually arrived at one of the "God Forbid" scenarios. If Violet and I were in a deadly situation and Linda could only save one of us, who would she choose? And vice versa? Who would I choose? Linda said without hesitation, "If you saved me, I would never forgive you." I think her answer tells me who she would save if it was between Violet and me.