My wife and I were clicking through the pictures on a relative’s Facebook page. We came to a picture of my niece on her couch, a baby perched on her lap. “Who’s that?” I wondered. Of course, within a moment, I realized it was Violet, but the moment was long enough to rattle me. Either I failed as a father (a tiny bit) in not recognizing my daughter or she’s changed so considerably since the picture was taken that she is no longer the baby we once had. I’m not sure which one I’m ready to accept.